Are You the Best Nanny Boss? Take the Self Evaluation!

By kathydupuy

Posted on Nov 7, 2024

Congratulations on hiring a fantastic nanny! To ensure that this valuable connection remains strong, professional, and successful for years to come, we’ve created a checklist of key qualities that contribute to a stellar nanny relationship. Whether you’ve just welcomed your nanny into your home or have worked together for several years, we invite you to take this self-evaluation. Rate yourself from a 1 (lowest) to a 5 (best) in each area:

✔Respect: My nanny respects my parenting style, and I truly value her/his expertise in childcare. We embrace our differences, trust each other’s judgment, and I make an effort to avoid micromanaging. Plus, we always present a united front when it comes to the kids!

✔Flexibility: My nanny is great at being flexible with my schedule (which I try not to change too often), and I do my best to be accommodating when she/he occasionally needs to adjust their own schedule.

✔Professionalism: My nanny and I maintain a professional relationship by avoiding oversharing of personal details, financial matters, or drama. We keep our boundaries clear and stay focused on our respective roles.

✔Fair Compensation: I provide my nanny with industry-standard (or above) compensation and paid time off (including vacation, sick days, and holidays), reviewing this annually. I ensure legal pay, reimburse on-the-job mileage, guarantee hours, and offer additional stipends for overnight stays or travel.

✔Clarity of Duties: The job duties of the position are clear for all parties, and I do not add extra requests unless we have both agreed to them (and eventually offer a raise as the job description grows).

✔Open Communication: I have regular meetings with my nanny (at least twice/year), and I’m always just a phone call, text, or email away if she/he has questions or wants to meet up for a chat.

✔Gratitude: I make a point to show my appreciation for my nanny’s hard work and dedication.

✔Community: I support my nanny in taking my child on outings to parks, museums, or classes, ensuring she/he does not feel isolated or secluded.

If you see any areas where you could improve, that’s fantastic news—you’re already taking the first step toward becoming an amazing employer! If you are below a 3 in any area, we encourage you to start your development there, and move up to 3s and 4s. Below are some resources in each area, and don’t hesitate to reach out to jessica.sjolseth@mbfagency.com with any questions.

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